Before its too late

Often enough we take the ones we love for granted, and in spite of all the warnings, we still push them to the limit. You have a man/woman who is willing to stand by your side during the best and worst of times. You have a man/woman who is able to put his/her own feelings and wants to side in order for you to do everything you need to gain status in your career/life. You have a man/woman who is your "silent" partner, yet you won't even take a second or minute out of your day to say "thank you" for being so patient with me; for loving me, and being who you are. While you are climbing the ladder of success/life, remember who is helping hold the ladder steady.

Leave well enough alone

Before you interrupt the heart of a man/woman, you should consider his/her state of being. some people are content with the way things are in their life. Some people are happy in their misery. Don't make someone feel something that could open up a wound or a world of hurt and disappointment. It's not easy for everyone to get over being hurt, again. Your intentions may not be sincere. Your choice to "see" what could happen may not be the best choice. Some people are on the edge and if you purposely hurt them, you may as well push them off the cliff because they were just fine standing at the edge.

Open your eyes

We all tend to want that one who takes our breath away when we look at them, but what about someone who makes breathing easy. He/She many not look "exactly" like we want however true beauty lies beneath the surface and is exuded through his/her character. Instead of looking at everything he/she doesn't have, look at everything they do. Look past outside flaws and open your eyes to the "inside" perfections. Open your eyes to what others never looked at or could see.

Don't lie to me

It's disturbing when people feel the need to lie about the simplest things. One lie always leads to another and then things get out of control. One lie can break a relationship and send some people over the edge. If you have to lie about something you did or going to do...then you shouldn't do it-it's that simple. I can deal with a lot of things, but a lie is something that I will not tolerate under any circumstances. That one lie can destroy all my trust. And as it has been said many times before, where there is no trust, there is no love. I can't imagine living everyday wondering if what someone says is the truth or a lie.

Female Woody

When you think of a woody, its something that men usually get from being excited by someone who is physically attractive, sexually enticing, pornographic stimulated. However, for women, its a feeling that is hard to put into words when we meet a man who is not only attractive physically, but mentally stimulating, has common sense and a sense of sensibility, goal oriented, and is a breath of fresh air from the stench of men without the basic necessities.

Cupid's Aim

Some singles would swear that Cupid is blind. He missed them completely even though they have been standing directly in front of him with a billboard sign strapped securely on them. Some singles have dodged Cupid's arrow at every chance because they enjoy the single life. Cupid has struck some vulnerable hearts who have fallen prey to what they hoped would be love. Cupid's aim is not always accurate, but true love is. 

Dust It Off

When you we in a "relationship" you kept your playbox dusted and your pole shined, but since you're "single" and refuse to get any old rag just to keep the cobbwebs off, you realize that the buildup is causing blinding flashes in your eyes, frustration, attitude, lotions to go quickly, and batteries to run out. If you're not careful, you'll find yourself on a psychiatrist's couch or ready to cut someone's throat. Let's save some money and a life....go dust that thing off so everyone can enjoy being around you.

My Mate Is Single

You consider yourself to be in a committed relationship but the person you're committed to is single in his/her actions. His/her FB status says single or nothing at all. When you are out in public, sometimes you will be introduced as his/her man/lady-then there are times when he/she simply introduce you by name. When he/she goes out, they either give out their number as though they are not in a relationship, and even accepts numbers with intentions of seeing what could happen. Your mate talks to another man/woman about things he/she won't even talk to you about. Still, you say, believe, and consider yourself to be in a relationship.

I Don't Know...

I don't know what it's like to love someone 'til it hurts and feels good at the same time. To have one person make the whole of me feel even more complete. I don't know what it is to wake up with someone who you never want to stop looking at even while you sleep. I don't know what it feels like to have your breath taken away in moments. I don't know how to stop wanting to love even though I've been hurt so many times. I don't know how I can dream about someone and hope for something that I don't know if I'll ever come to have in my lifetime. But, I do know that it's possible.