It's not enough

It is said that too much of a good thing is not always good. But, that only refers to bad things that feel, look and taste good. When you've been on a job for so long, and the only thing you get from it is a paycheck-it's not enough when you still feel empty. The same goes for relationships. Yes, you come home/go to the same person and everything remains the same, day in and day out. There is no life, spark, or fulfillment that makes you say "I feel so complete" and "I'm more than loved; I'm appreciated". There are other times when people who do have enough don't realize it, and they constantly want more. You have to want and desire more only when its "actually" not enough. But, if you're the type who is never satisfied with anything then you'll never have enough.

Walk it out!

She's up in your face as though you can't see her from two feet away. He's in your ear as though you can't hear him yelling. Then he/she is following you around the house as though to make you stop and listen to something you aren't in the mood to hear in the first place. Inside, it's taking every fiber of your being to retaliate and fight back (verbally) but you can't-you won't. So, the best thing to do is simply walk out all those thoughts and run out that rage.

I forgive you

Isn't it funny how we can say, "I love you" quicker than we can say, I forgive you? How is it that we can love more than we can forgive? When you've done something to someone that has caused them great pain and misery, you can't always wait for them to forgive you...you may need to ask for it. Some people hold onto grudges for a long time.

Bitterness

We all have had days that left us angry and bitter. But, some people are still living in those days. Sometimes our situations make us bitter because we don't understand why we are going through something when we've done nothing wrong. If you feel as though you're being treated unfairly or injustly, it's a normal to be bitter at that moment; in that moment. If you're bitter about the man/woman who left you, it's okay to feel hurt and disappointment for a short period of time. However, if you're still bitter about something that happened years ago, you're going to remain bitter for years to come.

Second time around

Some would say that going back works better than the first time because you realize what mistakes were made and you know how not to make them again. But, this is not true for everyone. Sometimes you must let second chances be a time when you work on yourself. Take it as a reprieve from the stupid things you or the other person said and did that caused the first time to fail. However, when there is no closure, and no valid reason why it ended in the first place, you should explore the second time around to gain something that you missed out on the first time.

You're not the one

It's hurtful to be told that you're not the one that he/she wants because he/she doesn't know exactly what they want to begin with. That person you want to be with wants something/someone you're not. They're looking for a certain physical type or financial figure. Maybe they need for you to have a certain type of job or car. Its possible they need someone they can rule or run over and who can't speak up for themselves. No matter...that's not you. When someone says, "you're not the one" just smile and know that they aren't the one you want to be with.

You have my sympathy

I'm sorry that you can't see how beautiful you are and know your own self worth. It's sad that you let someone steal your joy. Too bad that you don't have the emotional capacity to love again. Lord knows that I wish I could show you what others see.I apologize that no one has ever loved you the way you deserve. You have my deepest sympathy for the YOU that died somewhere in the midst of your trials. 

One more try

Here you go again. He/she is pleading for another try at making the relationship work. Somewhere in the back of your mind you say, no, but your heart still says, yes. You've heard this speech before. You've been down this road. Still, you want to believe that this will be the last time you do the same thing again. It's funny how he/she can make you feel guilty for not trying your best to make it work; for not giving him/her another chance. But, you ignore that fact because you love them and you really do want to be with them. Moreover, you believe it's going to be different this time.

All or nothing

I'm so tired of giving a little and expecting a lot. I hold back on giving my all because of fear of not receiving the same in return. Then, when it doesn't work the way I want it, I don't know who I'm angry with-me or the situation. It's time to start putting my all into it, and not fear what I don't get back in return. As long as I know that I gave it my all, I can walk away without regret.

Foolish but not a Fool

In the name of love we can be called foolish because we tend to do things that doesn't make sense to anyone but yourself. Only in the name of lust can we be called a fool. I'd rather be foolishly in love than a fool for love. I'd rather be fooled into believing for myself that I can love a person regardless of our differences, but not to be a fool and not know it. At one point in our lives, we all have been a fool for love and lust; foolishly we refused to accept it. So, be foolish and happy and not a fool and miserable. The best thing about admitting and seeing that you were a fool is that you know what to look for next time.