Leave well enough alone

Before you interrupt the heart of a man/woman, you should consider his/her state of being. some people are content with the way things are in their life. Some people are happy in their misery. Don't make someone feel something that could open up a wound or a world of hurt and disappointment. It's not easy for everyone to get over being hurt, again. Your intentions may not be sincere. Your choice to "see" what could happen may not be the best choice. Some people are on the edge and if you purposely hurt them, you may as well push them off the cliff because they were just fine standing at the edge.