Open your eyes
We all tend to want that one who takes our breath away when we look at them, but what about someone who makes breathing easy. He/She many not look "exactly" like we want however true beauty lies beneath the surface and is exuded through his/her character. Instead of looking at everything he/she doesn't have, look at everything they do. Look past outside flaws and open your eyes to the "inside" perfections. Open your eyes to what others never looked at or could see.