When you have been single for a long time and the one you’ve been waiting and searching for has finally come along, you may find it difficult to share your bed. In the past you went to his/her bed knowing that if things didn’t work out, you could always go back to your own bed. Maybe there were times when you invited him/her to a sleepover and he/she took all the cover. Now that someone has a key to your bedroom door, you may find the adjustment a little harder to adjust to, mentally. You can no longer lock your door. You become used to things being the way you put them and the way you’ve gotten used to them being. Now, real love is ruffling your sheets and changing the comforter.