Stand your ground

So many times we are looking for Mr/Mrs Right, and often times we end up with Mr/Mrs Wrong because we're in a hurry to just be with someone. We say to our inner self that we won't put up with certain things, yet we do just to be with someone. We say to our inner self that we won't allow him/her to treat me any other way than how I want to be treated, yet we do just to be with someone. We are so afraid of being alone that we never learn how to be with ourself. Take a minute to learn who you are and if you can stand yourself. When the time is right, stand your ground. I'm not talking about soft sands or rocky mountains of selfishness, greed, pride, or idealogies of perfection; stand your ground on respect, compromise, communication, standards, and trust. Stand on a solid foundation of who you are as a good woman/man who deserves to be treated like the Queen/King you are.